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Jane Eyre by Charlotte Brontë [Book Review]

Summary

“A novel of intense power and intrigue, Jane Eyre has dazzled generations of readers with its depiction of a woman’s quest for freedom. Having grown up an orphan in the home of her cruel aunt and at a harsh charity school, Jane Eyre becomes an independent and spirited survivor-qualities that serve her well as governess at Thornfield Hall. But when she finds love with her sardonic employer, Rochester, the discovery of his terrible secret forces her to make a choice. Should she stay with him whatever the consequences or follow her convictions, even if it means leaving her beloved?”

-From Amazon.com

Review

Jane Eyre is such a wonderful classic, and one that had been on my list for so long to read. Finally, I got to it and I am very glad that I did. It’s a wonderful story of an independent woman who makes her way on her own from nothing, to finding a family and about love in it’s various forms. It was certainly a book that had me smiling, wanting to throw it, and really overall trying to guess what would have happened next (and being so sure) and consistently being surprised.

Reading through a modern lens will not have you enjoy it.

This is a classic piece of literature and so any time you read such a book, you need to try and put yourself in the shoes of that time period to fully understand what is going on. Jane Eyre is set in the late 1700’s to early 1800’s, so you have to go into it with the mindset of society at that point. Women did not have rights like they do now, men have all the power, and education and independence was drastically different.

I will say I am guilty of going into books, like I was with this one, with a modern mindset and getting my feathers ruffled because of how the story goes. But, that being said, after a discussion and some further contemplation on the book, it really grew on me and will be a classic that will stick with me.

Trailblazing themes during patriarchal time period.

Understanding how the times are different really helps you understand how Jane was quite progressive and independent for her time. She managed to pull her life around, push away from a man after he treated her poorly, and was willing to remain alone instead of wanting to marry someone. It also showed a dedicated woman, albeit in my opinion a little foolish in the ending (although, once again that is a bit of my modern perspective coming in), something which was pretty new for the times and would have shaken up the status quo.

Jane began as a woman with nothing and through that, when she finally was presented with a life and a future, she was still incredibly generous and, as she had spent a lot of her life alone and ostracized, was comfortable with her way in life. It was so wonderful to read and follow her development and journey from a younger girl to a young woman through her challenges and how her life drastically changed.

But the story itself would have been quite shocking during when it was published (1847) and may have not been as wonderfully received as it was pushing against the patriarchy. While now one may say that the themes were subtle, during the mid 19th century, some of the bits of this book may have been borderline shocking.

It is romance with a lower case “r”.

While Jane Eyre does have “romance” in it, it is not a romance book like a lot of modern readers would classify it. First off, there is no explicit romance scenes of any kind, which is expected because of when the book is written. But the romance is all glances, and feelings, and acknowledgements. It’s small case romance, not capitalized Romance. As JSTOR Daily put it,

“Readers have always picked up on the tension between the book’s revolutionary subtexts and its uneasy relationship with love.”

Romance in this book wasn’t cute, perfect, having a happily-ever-after theme, which most likely echoed Brontë’s life (definitely recommend reading the JSTOR Daily post). It was messy, full of disasters, made you angry and have a whole host of other emotions.

It felt a lot more raw and real as to what the true idea of love is where it isn’t a fairy tale. There are challenges in love and sometimes it is more than just being head over heels. Jane seemed to really want love, but was struggling to really find what it was, which came from a mix of her background and then with Mr. Rochester due to her societal status compared to him.

But through that, you really felt the themes of romance – not just for romantic interests but that Jane kind of had towards herself and others that she came across.

Mr. Rochester – a jerk or more real than we like to admit? St. John a little too demanding?

The main “love interest” in the book, Mr. Rochester, isn’t someone that you are supposed to particularly like. His love for Jane is fleeting and appears to be based in the moment. Is it love or is it a man infatuated with a young woman because other things in his life (no spoilers here) don’t go according to plan?

You never entirely get an answer about that but as a reader I am sure you can come to your own personal assumptions. But Mr. Rochester, for his societal station acted exactly how a man of his time would have. The outcome of Jane and Mr. Rochester was not exactly what I thought it was going to be, and in the moment I was frustrated, but after mulling it over it makes sense. Once again, especially for a book of this nature.

Then there is St. John, the pretty, overly zealous cousin of Jane. He wants to become a missionary to make something of his life for God and wants Jane to go along with him but the only way that would happen is to marry. Over and over Jane was adamant in her position, and over and over St. John would push. But Jane, being strong willed and knowing what she wanted, even with the slight temptation, stood firm.

 

Overall, it was certainly an enjoyable read and one that I can see myself reading again in the future as it is a book that you can so easily miss bits and pieces going on. There are a few movie versions out there, the 1996 version with Anna Paquin and William Hurt, and the 2011 version with Michael Fassbender and Mia Wasikwoska, among other adaptations. I will certainly be checking them out soon as I can get my hands on them!

Have you read Jane Eyre? What were your thoughts on the book and story?

Happy Reading!


Iowa School District to Potentially Ban 374 Books: What Is Happening?! [Book Banning]

Due to Senate File 496 in Iowa, there are potentially hundreds of books to be banned in the Urbandale school district. According to the Senate File, it is

establishing a parent’s or guardian’s right to make decisions affecting the parent’s or guardian’s child, authorizing the parent or guardian of a student enrolled in a school district to enroll the student in another attendance center within the same school district in certain specific circumstances, prohibiting instruction related to gender identity and sexual orientation in school districts.” (Source)

Essentially the new law is prohibiting books that address topics of gender identity and sexual acts.

Books included in the potential ban are:

  • Ulysses
  • The Catcher and the Rye
  • Gender Queer
  • The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian
  • Mayor Pete: The Story of Pete Buttigieg
  • Rainbow Revolutionaries: 50 LGBTQ+ People Who Made History
  • The Handmaid’s Tale
  • The Perks of Being a Wallflower

If you live in this state, reach out to your representatives and legislators (you can find them here ) and reach out! Speak out against this occurring.

Each parent has every right to ask a teacher not to assign a book to their child. They have every right to make that decision for their own child. Not for other children and other families.

This is a gross overstep of power, and one of many states doing this!

 

Happy Reading and Happy Resisting!

#STOPBOOKBANS

 


How To Start A Virtual Book Club

During, and following, COVID many things that once were in person had to pivot to become virtual. And some of these things stayed that way, or opened up a new door with countless possibilities. One of these things was the transition of book clubs from gathering in person to online. This certainly presented challenges but also allowed people who maybe never have been to a book club to go from the comfort and safety of their own home, and meet some wonderful people from around the world.

I’m fortunate enough to be in a book club and actually run one with a wonderful group of men and women, primarily along the East Coast of the United States. It’s certainly not big, which is how I like it – kind of cozy and intimate like a real book club. But it afforded those older an ability to have a community during the trying times of COVID and also exposed me to some incredible pieces of literature and interesting perspectives.

During my time in the book club, co-moderating, and now running it, I’ve learnt a thing or two about how to successfully run a book club and wanted to pass on some tips and tricks if you wanted to start your own – either with strangers, you blog followers, or friends and family!

At a high level, this is what you need!

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Now to get into the down and dirty with a bit more information and examples of how I run it! 

1. Choose your platform to host it on wisely.

There’s a lot of great places out there that you can host on – I know there’s some in Discord for example. But for me personally, Facebook groups was the way to go. We needed it simple for those less technologically inclined and something which was accessible to many without needing to make a new account. If your group is older, or mixed, some of these fancy new apps and such may not work.

2. Decide if you will make administrative decisions or want the group to vote!

Some groups like to vote on everything. Others like to have the leaders make the choices. I personally enjoy doing a mix because it lets people be involved, but makes sure things get done. An example is, I will have people suggest monthly themes and I collect them all and then I choose what month they will occur on and try and get in as many as I can that were suggested! I’ve tried the collection of themes and having people vote on when they wanted it and let me tell you, it got messy. Sometimes as a moderator you need to just make decisions on your own.

3. Decide how many books you want to read and organize, organize, organize!

Some book groups read one book a quarter, some only a couple a year and others one a month. We are the latter so we get through a lot of book which is fantastic. But it means there is a lot of planning. How many books you want to read will determine how many themes you will need for the year. And this will also dictate when you need to be collecting and posting what people will be reading. You need to make sure to leave enough time to get the book – whether that be buying it or getting it from a library. Make sure you know what is happening when before you start.

If it’s friends it’s a little less informal and you can go with the flow, but if it’s strangers you want to put a good foot forward to have people engage and want to read the books.

4. Make Themes!

Themes are a great way to make sure that you have an array of books (you can see an example of what I do to the left). This is particularly important if you plan to try and read a lot of books. You can make your book club have a theme if that is your desire – so you are a classical book club, or a sci-fi book club. But, if you just want to read anything out there, start with making themes. Before January (or whenever your “new year” will start) it can be smart to know what your monthly themes will be.

How I’ve run mine is that end of November or early December I do a post in the Facebook group and ask my members for theme suggestions. Suggestions can be super specific or very general – but you want the themes to have enough clarity so people know what kind of book to suggest.

Once you collect all the theme suggestions, I’d recommend making executive decisions on what month will be when, and try and be logical! Maybe keep spooky themes to October, travel reads to the summer (or maybe the winter to escape the cold!)

5. Decide on your schedule.

You need to decide what is going to be happening when so people know what to expect. For example in my book club, during the month of January, the first of the month I post what our February theme is. People know what the theme is already because there’s a pinned post so they know what is up and coming and that is decided every year for the following year.

But, I’ll do a Facebook group post stating the theme for next month and asking for suggestions of books. I’ll usually leave that open for a week and choose the date I will accept suggestions until. Then on that date I collect everyone suggestions and do a poll! This allows members to vote on what they want to read – this will be open about a week too. Whatever has the most votes at the end wins! If two tie, then I’ll usually make an executive choice. By about the third week of a month, for this example in January, we’ll have our book for the month of February and we’ll post the winner!

The month of February is for reading and also choosing when we discuss the February book I recommend setting that in stone for your group if you can – i.e.: the first Sunday/the first Friday or a month we will meet to discuss. My group likes to be a bit more flexible so we vote on which of the first two weekends in the following month (so for this example, the following month is March) works best.

So for one book for one month, there’s about a 3 month timeline. It’s a lot of work and a lot of organizing but once it’s set and flowing, it’s worth it! That being said, you can simplify it absolutely! This is just how mine works, and sure it is complicated sometimes, but we have it down to a fine art after many years!

 

After that, you just have to have fun and be flexible! Book clubs should be a social time so it is entirely up to you how you want it to go. Having some structure can help it go smoothly, but if you want to just go with the flow then that is okay too! Just be open to some feedback to best suit it for your group! That being said, if you have a huge virtual book club then organization will be key!

Book clubs are a great way to be exposed to more books. I’ve definitely read books I’ve disliked or never would have read but ultimately I’ve enjoyed the process and community! Also with virtual it means you can possibly meet people from around the world. Starting small is great and growing your community from there is key!

 

Do you have any tips or tricks on how to run a virtual book club that I haven’t mentioned here? Feel free to share in the comments!

 


Malevolent King by Mila Kane [Dark Romance Book Review] 1

A Dark Mafia Romance – Made of Mayhem Duet Book 1

MATURE READERS ONLY! Read TW on authors website.

Summary

“When this sheltered mafia princess meets a bratva devil on the run, neither of them will ever be the same.

When my cousin bets me in a poker game, I catch the eye of a predator who will never look away.

Nikolai Chernov is infamous in our world. Unhinged, brutal, merciless. A hot-blooded killer with a deadly laugh and a sinful body to match.

He won’t leave me alone. He says I belong to him. His prize. As time passes, I can’t tell if I want him to win or lose.

He’s a dearly devoted psychopath,,, and he has his sights set on me. Nothing can stop him. Not even being imprisoned by my father.

I’m about to learn the hard way… When the villain doesn’t get the girl.

He takes her.

Malevolent King is Book 1 in a duet, and therefore ends in a cliffhanger. The story resolves in Runaway Queen. This is a dark mafia meets bratva romance, and as such contains dark themes which may not be to everyone’s tastes. Please read with caution.”

-From Amazon.com

Summary

So it’s been a HOT MINUTE since I’ve ready a good kind of smutty book. I’m not usually a huge, huge fan when there is quite literally no story and this one absolutely was not that! There was totally a story, good character development and progression and all the good stuff! I’ll also say it’s been a while since I’ve read a dark romance book as well and Bookstgram has been recommending me a ton of books in my list, most notably the Haunting Adeline (which I may or may not read, not decided just yet). So, decided to give Kindle a month free trial to see what they have there and BOOM, immediately, recommendations. And this was one of them.

DARK but still enjoyable

So this is classified as dark romance and it absolutely is. There were some heavy themes that may not float your boat, some of which definitely wouldn’t float my boat for real life stuff but for a book I was like, hmm okay I can go with this. You’ll see what I mean in the TW on her site but definitely having a psychotic kind of character as the male makes it a pretty heavy book. And of course it’s a mafia story so there’s some other kind of weird and creepy under themes to it but honestly it does kind of add to the story. I don’t want to say mafia romance books are ever realistic, because we know that mafia and romance do not go together (let it stay in your head ladies and gentlemen) but dark mafia romance usually has the level of twistedness that makes it a bit closer to ‘reality’ for lack of a better phrase. But don’t get it into your head to find the nearest mafia hangout spot to try and catch their eye!

Steamy and kept the pages going – but vulgar.

Now I am absolutely not a prude. I love a good steamy scene as much as the next person, but there are certain words that I am not a huge fan of, some of the more…seriously extreme and crass words (it’s used in Australia as a friendly greeting to give a hint). I’m sure you can guess which ones I’m getting at. And well, the main character Nikolai loved to used some of those words and it was kind of a slap to the face. I absolutely know that it comes with the territory but you can get the dark point across without a use of a certain word, or used as much. Especially normalizing it’s use in books or making it seem sexy. Now, I now everyone has their own personal preference and this is just one of mine. But just be aware, not only is it dark but it is going to definitely expose you to new words which may or may not be your thing.

But if you want a steamy book, then this definitely may catch your interest! It kept me with the pages turning and I wanted to know more! Not only from the steamy side but also the story side.

Psychotic Development – Caged Bird Freed

The main character Nikolai definitely did progress a little bit over the book, going from the crazier person to someone with a little more heart. As well did Sofia going from a bit more of a timid-ish young woman to trying to kick some butt a little bit in her own way. It’s was certainly interesting to see that develop over the book and see how their stories entwined, especially with the running theme of the mafia and mafia families in the background. To also see some of the background of the families and how they all got to where they were, well that was certainly an added bonus to get some of that additional view.


Overall, I definitely enjoyed the read and can see myself reading this book again just to pick up on a few other bits and pieces going on – you know, wink wink nudge nudge. But in all seriousness, it was an enjoyable read and certainly one I’d recommend if you like more mature romance and dark romance in general. It does end in a cliffhanger and book two was definitely enjoyable too (review coming soon-ish).  It’s free on Kindle but you can also grab yourself a paperback!

Happy Reading!

Get yourself a copy here, or read it on Kindle Unlimited!

 

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Big Book Stores: The Secret to Keeping Indie Stores Alive?

Recently a fantastic essay came out on BookRiot on “How Should We Feel About Barnes & Nobel Now?” and it has been doing it’s round. If you haven’t given it a read, I highly recommend that you do.

The TL;DR is essentially that Barnes & Nobel is coming back and while it seems that they are trying to make their stores more “indie” focused – allowing stores to be a bit more unique and have smaller book selections – they really are just a big store with a bottom line. They aren’t there to truly care about the customer in the same way tat an indie store would. The author of the essay went so far to compare B&N to some of the Amazon Bookstores.

But, I would argue that there is some benefit to having B&N back on the scene and rebranding in a way. It gives some strong competition to Amazon in my opinion. Amazon has dominated the market is literally every single category. You need food? Amazon. Beauty items? Amazon. Phones? Amazon. Adult items? Amazon.

From larasbookclub.wordpress.com

Don’t get me wrong, I am guilty of using Amazon and as a blogger they do have a ‘decent’ and easy program to be an associate and earn a small commission, but at the end of the day they push everyone else to the side! Keep places that challenge a store like Amazon – whether that be Target, Walmart or B&N – means that there is some kind of diversity and it stops prices being too too crazy.

So where does Barnes & Nobel fit in?

Well, they challenge Amazon Books, you know those brick and mortar stores that they set up? I checked one out a long time ago and I personally hated it.

B&N allows people go in and browse, and also bring back a lot of our childhoods who grew up going to their events or looking for a book! It’s kind of that gateway that can help to maintain prices, have more money to keep more books in store and maybe introduce you to other books that you didn’t know of.

So how could this help indie stores?

Well this is where the buyer/reader comes in. Places like B&N, as I said, are good to browse and see what is out there. I hate shopping for books online so I may go into B&N and peruse the shelves, see what their people recommend, take some pictures of books I’m curious in, and then leave. I don’t purchase from them usually unless I go in for a purpose for something. From there I may go to an indie book store and find the book (sometimes reaching out before hand to have them get it in) and give them my business.

I used what B&N provided for me in their physical location but give my money elsewhere for certain purchases.

In my opinion, indie stores also usually hire people who are truly passionate about books and want to talk about books. B&N, as a large company, is just going to hire staff, or be more likely to. Not everyone who works there is a book lover and may just need a job. If you’ve ever been in an indie store you know what I mean! The staff love to chat, answer questions and always give great suggestions!

From my Instagram

So while B&N is still a big company and wants to take your money, when you are looking at prices, the price difference is honestly (in many cases) decently negligible. And yes, I know Amazon looks so attractive with their cheap prices, but they want you to only buy from them. They play the long game – buy from them, push other places out of business and then hike up the prices and you’ll have nowhere else to go.

There is no one clear answer – sometimes you can’t afford to really support an indie place and really have to turn to Amazon, I totally get that. Buttt, barring those pesky school books that you have to buy, I have a great solution there! Your library! I’m a big supporter of libraries for those who don’t maybe have tons of money to spent – I mean big duh with the name and all. But maybe instead of buying your whole TBR, borrow some and buy what you love and put that money towards indie stores. Just one option of many and there is no one size fit all.

But I know that I will continue to love my Barnes & Nobel to just go, grab a coffee and wander around a big store and look at books. I mean what is better than that?!