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I don’t know if you are massively part of the Book Twittersphere, but in the last few days, we’re had a massive explosion in #soapgate. If you don’t know exactly what it is, I’m going to summarize it for you, but if you want pictures, you’ll need to look to Twitter (it’s all there!).
So essentially, a book subscription box decided to do a book boyfriend box themed around ACOTAR. Now, in the original listing of this product of Instagram, it did not say 18+ anywhere. It didn’t say this until 3 posts later and orders had been made. On the online listing, the word ‘mature’ is only at the very bottom, and I don’t know many who read the entire listing.
Cutting a long story short, when people got the box, they were shocked to find two things unexpected inside (besides the other stuff). We had a bound fanfiction (which is a BIG NO-NO) and a soap in the shape of a phallic body part….with a suction cup on the end. Now, when I saw the pictures, I thought that it was some kind of adult toy and nearly had a heart attack (I didn’t buy the box but I saw my friends opening it on Instagram).
So there’s two problems with the box. I’ll start with the legal one.
Selling FanFiction for money is illegal!
You are allowed to write FanFiction until you’re blue in the face, and you can share it all over and give it as gifts to friends. But the moment you make any money from that writing, you are breaking the law. People say, ‘Well 50 Shades of Grey was a FanFiction of Twilight’, and while that is true, the premise of the story, like deep down, is similar, but the story itself has no clear connections such as character names, et ceterea.
FanFiction generally keeps the same world, same characters, same personalities – it’s the same thing as the story except they change what the characters do or who they pair with.
If you sell FanFiction, true FanFiction, you are stealing an authors writing. In this case, that was Sarah J. Maas’ writing. So that was the first big no-no.
Next, why are you putting dick soap into a box for kids?
I first do need to mention that this book, while it is YA, I don’t classify it as that – it’s more NA and even borderlines on adult. When I initially got the book a year ago to start the series, I thought it was Fantasy with romance. But once I got to the first sex scene I thought I was reading an adult erotic romance novel. To say I was shocked would be an understatement. For an adult, it’s fine. But for a YA reader (who could be 13), it was unacceptable.
Now, I don’t mind romance in books. Romance is healthy. Kids need to read about romance. But sex? I don’t think that a 13 year old should be reading it to completely normalize sex for them. We have kids who believe that condoms aren’t needed because of pornographic videos and stories they read online, they think that relationships aren’t messy because of the beautiful romance stories that they read..the last thing you need is your young kid reading a hot and steamy sex scene before they even truly know what sex is. It is going to alter their perceptions on things.
Some parents don’t mind what their kids read, or don’t have the time to be involved, and if they aren’t…then they could be reading some really questionable things. Hands on parents, or parents that give any attention, whatsoever, to the kids, will not want their young ones reading something this graphic. We got some questionable themes going on here people! Wake up!
It can be hard being a YA author to write romance scenes for older YA because if you’re 17 or 18, reading that kind of scene may be less shocking and more what you’re looking for. So that’s why I think NA (new adult) is perfect. It’s in between YA and adult…as we have no distinction between younger YA and older YA. So I’m not really blaming the author here. Maybe a potential warning system in books would be better (kind of like trigger warnings) that authors can put to warn parents what the book could contain to stop people from being so shocked. But, that is besides the point and a whole other blog post.
I want to know why the person who made the box thought it was okay to put a male genitalia object in a book designed for kids without the proper warning until they had sold copies. It’s funny, they claim they put the warning on the first post and all the screen shots clearly show that there was absolutely no warning. To me, that’s kind of lying and if I paid $50 for a box like this, I’d be furious…especially if I had purchased it for my kid. Even adult videos have to put clear warnings on their videos by law.
What has the world come to that book boxes include smutty fanfiction and genitalia shaped soaps?!
WHAT IS HAPPENING IN THE BOOK COMMUNITY?
What are you thoughts?
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